Why choose therapy?
Life can be very challenging at times leaving us feeling distressed, overwhelmed and alone and not knowing which way to turn. You may feel stuck, angry, ashamed, anxious or just flat without knowing why. Or there may be something more specific that you've experienced, a significant loss or traumatic event which has unexpectedly changed the course of your life and is still troubling you.
Over a prolonged period of time, difficult emotions, thoughts and feelings can profoundly affect not only our enjoyment of daily life but also our behaviour, our levels of self esteem, confidence and sense of well-being.
Therapy is an invitation to explore and find a way through these difficult periods within a non judgemental, empathic and confidential space. Being listened to and heard creates the opportunity to better understand and trust ourselves, make more balanced and constructive choices and live a more fulfilling life as a result.
For some, counselling will be enough to work through a specific issue. However, you may want to take a more psychotherapeutic approach to yourself, looking more deeply at your life experiences over a longer period of time.
Whatever brings you to therapy, sharing your personal thoughts and feelings requires a safe and trusting relationship so it is important to take some time to find a therapist who feels right for you and your individual challenges.
I am an accredited UKCP clinical psychotherapist and counsellor. My studies took place at the Metanoia Institute in London where I gained a Post Graduate Clinical Diploma in Person-Centred Psychotherapy and an MSc in Contemporary Person-Centred Psychotherapy and Applications.
I am a qualified Equine Assisted Therapeutic Coach. I trained at the HEART Centre, a holistic horse and pony centre in Ockham, Surrey.
I also have basic skills training in Shadow Work facilitation through the Golden Opportunities organisation.
As part of my ongoing UKCP accreditation I am fully committed to my continuing professional development and attend regular workshops, experiential trainings and theoretical talks alongside engaging with current conversations and dialogue around mental health and emotional well-being.
As a registered member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) I also abide by the organisation's code of ethics.
I have been practising as a therapist in Surrey for 14 years and I work from my home in Witley, near Godalming, Guildford and Haslemere. My focus is currently working with adults in both long and short term therapy and I also offer online therapy as an alternative to in-person.
In addition, I offer experiential and educational support workshops to parents of teenagers struggling with mental health as part of the Green Hub Charity in Milford, Surrey.
I also facilitate workshops and seminars for adults on understanding shame, including co-presenting to psychotherapists at the annual Person-Centred Psychotherapy Conference.
My equine assisted therapeutic work has predominantly been co-facilitating refugee groups. This trauma-informed work is supported by the Big Leaf Charity in Surrey who offer support for displaced lone young adults who have come to the UK as asylum seekers.
Other equine work has been more emotion-focused with adult groups and individuals to support the emotional processing of anger, shame and grief.
Before moving into private practice, I worked with adults at Petersfield Counselling Services in the areas of domestic and sexual abuse and as a bereavement and grief counsellor at Woking Hospice.
I have also worked extensively with the Youth Counselling Service (12-24 year olds) which operates within Surrey and Borders NHS mental health trust (SABP) across a broad range of issues.
I can provide support across a wide range of issues, such as:
Anxiety
Abandonment
Betrayal
Trauma, post- traumatic stress (PTSD)
Complex post - traumatic stress (CPTSD)
Abuse - domestic and sexual, childhood.
Fear and isolation
Stress
Self Harm
Shame
Anger & Rage
Depression
Bereavement and loss
Grief and loss
Traumatic grief
Living with illness
Menopause
Relationships
Separation and divorce
Impact of mental health issues within families
Gender identity
Sexuality
The Person-Centred Approach (PCA) is a relational, non-directive therapeutic model that fundamentally supports our innate tendency to grow. The PCA model was pioneered by Carl Rogers, an American humanist psychologist who developed his theories in the 1950's.
Rogers believed that each of us has within us the resources to grow and develop to our full potential and lead a healthy and fulfilling life, but that this process may be hampered, disrupted and distorted by our experiences of relationships and life events, both past and present, and by the social and cultural environment that we live in.
As a result of his extensive research in psychiatric units, he observed that if the therapist can offer certain, optimum conditions for the client, then healthy psychological change and growth can take place, fuelled by the client's inherent life energy and desire to make sense or meaning of their unique lived experiences.
My role is to facilitate these conditions for you - a safe, non-judgemental and empathic therapeutic container within which all of you is welcome and held. This is done through listening carefully and compassionately to your experiences, thoughts and feelings, trusting that you know what is safe for you to share, what may be too painful and that you know which direction to go in and at what pace. My place is both alongside you as well as to gently challenge you, to understand you and for us to work relationally and collaboratively.
Whilst fundamentally PCA in my approach, my practice is also informed by findings in neuroscience and interpersonal neurobiology, particularly within the fields of trauma, anger, shame and grief. I am interested in the energies of these difficult emotions that can embed themselves and disrupt and disturb our nervous system, our thinking and behaviours. I work closely and gently with somatic experiencing and the autonomic nervous system to foster deeper self awareness and understanding; a reparative process that supports a reconnecting with self.
Whilst there are many therapeutic modalities, each with different theoretical frameworks and applications, research has shown that for therapy to 'work', that is the relationship between therapist and client that is the most important element. Therapy is a space away from your everyday life and one that is all about you.
To arrange a session please email me: info@suegoodfellowpsychotherapy.co.uk.
In-person and online therapy sessions are £65 for 50 minutes.
I am not currently open for equine sessions until further notice.
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